My Uncle Lyle and me Jan. 1, 2010

Most of my life on Christmas Eve our family would go to my Grandma and Grandpa Law’s home to see my dad’s family. My dad had a big family. He had 5 sisters and 1 brother – and we would see most all of them on Christmas Eve. Most of the time we had snow – and lots of it! Us kids would go outside and goof off in the snow throwing snowballs at each other then come back in to warm up and eat the goodies that everyone had brought.

Aunt Thea and me, Jan 1. 2010

After both grandma & grandpa were gone it dwindled out. I remember going to my cousin Shirley’s home when the kids were about 9 & 10 and that was the last Christmas Eve I spent with the Law family. Now, every year when we get to this time of year I have this deep heartache because things aren’t the way they used to be. I miss my Christmas Eve visits with my dad’s family. I know things change, but sometimes you don’t want it to. If I could freeze time I would have my grandparents back and I would be spending Christmas Eve with them again along with the rest of my family.

One very special man – my Uncle Lyle

I decided it was time to visit my Uncle Lyle & Aunt Thea. The last time I saw them was at their 50th Wedding Anniversary party which I think was almost 3 years ago. I’ve been thinking about my Uncle Lyle a lot lately. He has the kindest heart and he would do anything he could to help you out. I will never forget him bringing firewood to our home when my first husband and I were married and I was pregnat with Justin. He was working on my Dad’s farm with him and on his way home he brought wood with him on the back of his truck and unloaded it all into our garage so we would have heat in our home. Dana was working the afternoon shift, so Uncle Lyle unloaded that whole truckload of wood for me and then proceeded to check my fire to make sure I would be warm while I waited for Dana to get home.

I wanted to take some kind of treat when I visited. I had bananas that were needing to be used so I made some Banana Crumb Muffins to give to my Aunt & Uncle. You know, us foodies, we don’t like to go anywhere without taking food with us to give to other people! They enjoyed the muffins while we were there visiting. Uncle Lyle got his fiddle out and played with it some. It reminded me of Christmas Eve when Grandpa would pull his fiddle out to play and I enjoyed every second I was there. This visit helped me some, but it doesn’t mean I’m over it. It just makes me want to go see them and my other aunts & uncles more often.

The Banana Crumb Muffin is a recipe I found on When I make banana muffins, this is the only recipe I ever use. I love how it is a light muffin – not dense in any way. Also, the crumb topping is so good that I secretly think about taking the top of the muffin off and leaving the rest! ;o) Aunt Thea told me it was the best muffin she ever ate. Of course, that pleased me right to pieces!

Banana Crumb Muffins

1- 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
3 bananas, mashed
3/4 cup white sugar
1 egg, lightly beaten
1/3 cup butter, melted
1/3 cup packed brown sugar
2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
1/8 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 tablespoon butter

Preheat oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C). Lightly grease 10 muffin cups, or line with muffin papers.
In a large bowl, mix together 1 1/2 cups flour, baking soda, baking powder and salt. In another bowl, beat together bananas, sugar, egg and melted butter. Stir the banana mixture into the flour mixture just until moistened. Spoon batter into prepared muffin cups.

In a small bowl, mix together brown sugar, 2 tablespoons flour and cinnamon. Cut in 1 tablespoon butter until
mixture resembles coarse cornmeal. Sprinkle topping over muffins.

Bake in preheated oven for 18 to 20 minutes, until a toothpick inserted into center of a muffin comes out clean.

About the Author: Shelby Law Ruttan

Shelby is the author/owner of Grumpy's Honeybunch. Established in 2007, she shares and preserves family recipes as well as recipes for cooking light and keto. She is an experienced, self-taught home cook who loves to share recipes with others. You can see her work on websites such as Veal Made Easy, Parade, Community Table, SoFab Food, Yummly, and FoodGawker.


  1. Cristine January 1, 2010 at 9:59 pm - Reply

    It is so great to have wonderful family! Happy New Year, Shelby!

    And the muffins look great, too!

  2. tamilyn January 1, 2010 at 10:50 pm - Reply

    Glad you got to visit with your family, Shelby. I know that Christmas is the hardest time as I lost all four of my grandparents within a month of Christmas. Some of the traditions aren't the same anymore. Now I am working on making new ones for my kids so they will memories to tell their kids and share those traditions with.



  3. Lisa January 1, 2010 at 11:44 pm - Reply

    It sounds like you have such wonderful memories. Happy New year!

  4. Shauna January 1, 2010 at 11:51 pm - Reply

    HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010!!!

  5. Katy ~ January 1, 2010 at 11:58 pm - Reply

    Happy New Year, Shelby! Wishing you the very very best!!

    Your Uncle Lyle is a cutie! He could be brothers with our veterinarian, no kidding. You wouldn't believe the amazing resemblance!

    Those muffins ARE exceptional. Haven't made them in a while and darn it, for once, I don't have any bananas.

  6. Amanda January 2, 2010 at 1:30 am - Reply

    Glad you were able to visit Shelby! Happy new Year to you 🙂

  7. Sabrina January 2, 2010 at 2:51 am - Reply

    Happy New Year! You look beautiful and you have a lovely family. The muffins look YUM!!!

  8. Kathleen January 2, 2010 at 3:07 am - Reply

    Happy New Year! Sounds like you had a nice visit. My daughter makes that muffin recipe and I agree it's wonderful!

  9. Gera @ SweetsFoods January 2, 2010 at 3:28 am - Reply

    Muffin of banana must be gorgeous and so nice memories!

    Happy New Year and the Best for You Shelby!



  10. Bellini Valli January 2, 2010 at 6:36 am - Reply

    Happy New Year Shelby!!!The best part of the holidays are being with those we love.

  11. Coleen's Recipes January 2, 2010 at 11:25 am - Reply

    I know what you mean about missing old traditions, but it sounds like you had a great visit. Happy New Year Shelby!!!

  12. Ivy January 2, 2010 at 11:52 am - Reply

    Hope the New Year brings you and your family health, prosperity and happiness.

  13. Barbara Bakes January 2, 2010 at 2:34 pm - Reply

    How sweet! I love that he played the fiddle for you. I'll have to give the muffins a try.

  14. pegasuslegend January 2, 2010 at 5:34 pm - Reply

    A wonderful family story as you know I would love, thanks for sharing! And the muffins are delicous to start off my morning with my coffee delish!

  15. Linda January 2, 2010 at 9:22 pm - Reply

    You're right–we don't like to go anywhere without taking food. 😉

    I enjoyed your story, HoneyB! Happy New Year!

  16. pigpigscorner January 2, 2010 at 9:43 pm - Reply

    Happy new year!

  17. Ingrid January 3, 2010 at 1:22 am - Reply

    Aw, its awesome to read how much you love your family. It's one of the things I like about you. Too often I've met people who say they can't even stand their parents let alone aunts and uncles. I don't get that at all. Thanks for sharing and I hope that 2010 brings you back with all your loved ones.

    Merry belated Christmas and Happy New Year!

  18. Donna-FFW January 3, 2010 at 1:32 am - Reply

    Uncle Lyle is such a cutie!! Happiest of New Years to you and yours!

  19. Jessie January 3, 2010 at 3:32 am - Reply

    I just love reading stories about your family, you always have great memories. Those banana crumb muffins the perfect treat to start off the new year

  20. Gabe's Girl January 3, 2010 at 4:39 am - Reply

    I love allrecipes. I love banana nut muffins. And I love how you shared your Christmas memories and family with us. Thanks!

    Your audio book will be on its way on Monday.

    Happy New Year!

  21. Patsyk January 3, 2010 at 2:48 pm - Reply

    You have some wonderful family memories! Happy New Year to you and your entire family!

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